For as long as he could remember, Keith Cox had wanted to be a nurse. He always had a calling to help other people. His elder sister, Fay, became a nun, as well as a nurse, and was a major reason fuelling his desire. The problem was that the Goulburn Base Hospital did not accept male nurses. So, when he turned 17, he was at a bit of a loss. However, three years later Keith got his wish after reading that the Royal Prince Alfred Hospital in Camperdown was looking for trainee nurses. This was the start of the life he felt he was meant to live.

What follows is a collection of anecdotes that had me shocked, laughing, and crying, as Keith works, trains, and studies, until he finds his true vocation and passion, that of an oncology nurse.

In 2006, he became the third Australian to become a cancer nurse practitioner, and in 2007 was awarded the OAM (Order of Australia).

The OAM was awarded to Keith not just for his work as a nurse, but for his mentoring, researching, medical conferences, and community work. He truly has devoted his life to a holistic approach to fighting the scourge that is cancer.

Some of his stories of past patients are heartbreaking, and yet beautiful and inspiring at the same time. The connections that he forms with them, knowing that their time is short, does bring tears to your eyes. It is a comfort to know that an incredible man like Keith was there for them when their time came. Often by the bed, holding their hand.

I love books like this that shine a light on how amazing and selfless people can be. An inspiring read in difficult times.

Reviewed by Neale Lucas